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Your AI asks three questions before it answers anything. Here's the fix.

Short answer Tell it to attempt first and clarify after. Most assistants ask questions because they're optimising to avoid being wrong — not because they can't answer.

Why it happens

A clarifying question is cheap for the model and expensive for you. It costs the model nothing to ask; it costs you a decision, a typed reply, and a wait.

When you're already stuck, three questions is often where the conversation ends. You came for momentum and got a form to fill in.

The fix

Paste this at the start of a chat.

Rule for this conversation: attempt first, clarify after.

If you can make a reasonable attempt at what I asked, do it — even if you have to guess. State your assumption in one line, then give me the answer. I will correct you, and correcting a draft is far easier for me than answering questions.

If you genuinely cannot attempt anything useful, ask ONE question. Never two or three. Then wait.

If I sound stuck, overwhelmed, or short on time, ask nothing at all. Just make your best attempt.

Side by side: a generic AI asking eight clarifying questions, versus Navigator producing a draft week to react to. — The same question, answered two ways.

The part a prompt can't do

The last rule is the one that matters most and the one a pasted prompt handles worst: knowing when you're in no state to be questioned.

That requires the assistant to read how you're writing, not just what you asked — and to change its behaviour before it answers.

That detection is the difference between a formatting instruction and a skill.

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